A thank-you, a lifetime in the making

To some, you're Mom & Dad. To others, you're Nana & Papa. To all of us, your love, support, and care have shaped our lives in countless ways.

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Mom and Dad smiling together
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You never made your sacrifices loud. You just quietly went without, so that we never had to. You picked up the extra shift, gave up the thing you wanted, and somehow always made it look easy.

Then you did it all over again as Nana and Papa, opening your home, your time, and your hearts to a whole new generation, loving the grandkids the way you loved us.

Thank you. For all of it. With all our love

Mom and Dad on their wedding day, lighting a candle
Where it all started

Where it all began

One candle, one promise

Before the grandkids and the road trips, before the camping trips and the full house, there were just the two of you, choosing each other, and lighting something that's never gone out since.

A family tradition

Papa's homemade brats

Some families have a recipe. Ours has a whole production line, and Papa runs it. From the old hand-crank grinder to a grill loaded end to end, brat day is one of the ways this family says "come home."

Brats grilling end to end
The grill loaded end to end, brat day at its finest
Linking sausage by the old hand grinder
Linking the sausage by the old hand grinder
Papa hanging the fresh links to dry
Papa hanging the fresh links to dry
Making sausage in the kitchen together
Making sausage in the kitchen together
Many hands at the sausage grinder
Many hands at the sausage grinder
The crew running the grinder together
The crew running the grinder together
Papa and the boys filling the casings
Papa and the boys filling the casings
Grinding the meat together at the counter
Working the grinder together, side by side
Fresh ground sausage filling the tray
Hand over hand, the tray filling up

Wind in their hair

Out on two wheels

Helmets on, the open road ahead, and each other for company. Some of their favorite days were the ones spent riding together, no particular place to be.

The two of them on the trike
Ready to ride, the two of them on the trike
Helmet selfie on the road
Helmets on, ready for the open road
The two of them by the cabin after a ride
Side by side after a day on the road

Home is where you park it

Camp days & open skies

Corn on the grill, the camper tucked into the trees, and a quiet lake just down the path. Camping was where this family slowed down and simply enjoyed being together.

Grilling out at the camper
Grilling out at the camper together
Sunshine and blue water on a lake day
Sunshine and blue water on a lake day
Side by side at the water's edge
Side by side at the water's edge
Taking in the view on the road
Taking in the view on the road
All smiles against the rocks
All smiles against the rocks
Papa and a little one at the gold mine
Papa and a little one at the gold mine
Hanging out at the RV park
Hanging out at the RV park
Riding up front in the camper
Riding up front in the camper
Matching shirts, easy afternoons
Matching shirts, easy afternoons

To some of us

Mom & Dad

Long before we were grown, we were your kids. You taught us to work hard and to love harder, you cheered the loudest and worried the quietest, and you turned an ordinary house into the one place we always knew we belonged. Everything good in us started at your table.

All of us kids together
All of us, together
Dad with the kids in the yard
Dad and his crew
At the racetrack together
Race night at the track
Mom and Dad with their son at the track
The three of you, trackside
Dad and a son back to back at a wedding
Suited up, side by side
A mother and son at a wedding
A wedding day, dressed to the nines
A mom with two of the girls
The girls, all together
By the race car
Victory lane by the 06 car
At the Louisville Slugger Museum
A day at the Louisville Slugger
Home sweet home selfie
Home sweet home
Holding flowers together
Flowers and a good day
By the Christmas tree
Christmas at home
Palm tree selfie
Sunset and palm trees
Out in the woods together
A walk in the pines
A goofy selfie together
Never short on laughs
A fun night out selfie
A night out, all smiles

To the rest of us

Nana & Papa

Then the house filled up all over again. Ballgames and road trips, penguins and brats, diner booths and bear hugs in the hallway. You gave the boys a Nana who never missed a moment and a Papa whose arms were always open. To them, your home has always been the very best place to be.

Nana and Papa with the boys, all dressed up
All four of you, dressed up and together
The four of them on a road trip
Road trip days, the four of you on the go
Papa hugging both grandsons
Papa and a hug big enough for both boys
Nana with the boys in Dodgers gear
Game day with Nana
Papa and the boys at the diner
A booth, a meal, and Papa
Nana taking a selfie with both boys
Nana and a front row selfie
A grandson leaning into Papa at the diner
Close to Papa, always
Nana and a grandson at the penguin exhibit
Adventures with Nana
Nana laughing with a grandson
Always good for a laugh
Papa with both boys at lunch
Lunch out with Papa
Papa and the boys making brats together
Learning the family trade
Papa and a grandson with the championship trophy
Champions, with Papa
Nana with the boys at the ballpark
Best seats in the house with Nana
The two boys at the pumpkin patch
Two little brothers, one pumpkin patch
The two boys climbing at the beach
Climbing high on a beach day
Graduation night, all four of you together
Graduation night, all four of you together
Proud Nana and her 2020 graduate
Proud Nana and her 2020 graduate
Proud Papa and his 2020 graduate
Proud Papa and his 2020 graduate
Papa and the 2022 grad under the tree
Papa and the 2022 grad under the tree
Nana and the 2022 grad, all smiles
Nana and the 2022 grad, all smiles

Walking it together

Through the hard road

Dad, cancer asks more of you than anyone should ever have to give, and you meet it the way you have met everything, with quiet strength and a stubborn kind of hope. The long days, the hospital rooms, the waiting. You do not face any of it alone.

Mom is right beside you. We stay close. And through every uncertain hour, the Lord is nearer still, holding what we cannot, carrying us when our own strength runs thin. This road is not finished, and neither is the goodness that walks it with you both.

Dad resting at home
Resting easy, still home, still here with us
Mom and Dad cheek to cheek
Side by side, the way you always are
The family gathered around Dad
Surrounded by the ones who love you most
The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.
Deuteronomy 31:8

Two of the greatest roles ever played

Parents first.
Then Nana & Papa.

i.

As Mom & Dad

You raised us with everything you had, and a lot you didn't think you had.

  • You put our needs ahead of your own, every single time
  • You showed us what hard work and showing up looks like
  • You built a home where everyone always had a seat at the table
ii.

As Nana & Papa

Then you gave up the quiet, easy years you'd earned, and chose to sacrifice all over again.

  • You traded slow mornings for sticky hugs and bedtime stories
  • You became the safe place the grandkids run to
  • You proved that your love only ever multiplies, never divides

What it really cost

Given freely, never counted

You'd never add it up yourselves, so we will.

0
Years of putting us first
∞
Sacrifices we never saw
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In, every single day

Then and now

Once, a circle of friends surrounded you. Now it's a family, shaped by two parents who gave us everything.

Then Their wedding day with the wedding party
The day it all began, surrounded by friends
Now The whole family gathered together today
All these years later, surrounded by family

From all of us

We love you more than these pages could ever hold.

♥

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